Support for survivors of every gender

Education. Solidarity. Action.

No survivor
should stand
alone.

No one should have to build their life around avoiding sexual violence. Together, we can challenge abuse, stand with survivors, and change what we accept.

For survivors of every gender. For everyone ready to show up.

A commitment to stand togetherShow Up For Her Now
Listen. Believe. Support.Starting now.

You are not to blame. You are not alone. You deserve support.

Change the conversation

Stop asking survivors
to follow more rules.

Watch your drink. Don’t walk alone. Change your clothes. Women have heard these instructions all their lives. None of them addresses the choice to cause harm.

Teach boys and men not to rape. Teach everyone to respect consent. Challenge coercion, entitlement, and excuses for abuse. People of any gender can cause harm, and people of every gender deserve safety.

Safety tools can be a personal choice. Using them—or not using them—never makes someone responsible for an assault.

What prevention should mean →

Our name. Our welcome.

“Her” is in our name.
Every survivor belongs here.

Men and boys experience sexual abuse, too. Transgender and nonbinary survivors deserve to be seen. Whether the harm happened recently or decades ago, whether the person was a stranger, partner, or family member: you deserve care.

Read our mission →
Understand the evidence.

From research to reflection

What can solidarity change?

Explore the bonobo coalition study and research on men’s perceptions of their peers—with clear explanations of what the findings do and don’t tell us.

Visit the research library →

A next step, on your terms

You deserve support.
Whenever you’re ready.

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